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By
Dr. Bill Gaultiere
Executive
Director of New Hope
Here's
a self-test I developed called the "God Image Questionnaire"
(GIQ). The GIQ is meant to help you better understand how
you see God on an emotional level. Each question asks about
your feelings in your relationship with God. Please
answer according to your feelings or experiences and
not your opinions or beliefs about God. Read each question
and then circle "T"
for true and "F" for false.
- At times
I feel that God doesn't give His full attention to the details
of my life. T F
- When I
need God it sometimes feels like He does not help me very
much. T F
- I feel
like God sometimes withholds good things from me. T F
- I feel
disregarded by God at times. T F
- I feel
that God is distant from me. T F
- At times
I feel pressured to do something for God that I don't want
to do. T F
- I feel
I have to do something to obtain God's favor. T F
- To please
God I feel I must measure up to His expectations. T F
- When I
confess my sin I don't always feel forgiven by God. T F
- At times
it feels unfair the way God treats me. T F
- If I'm
in a threatening situation I tend to feel unprotected by
God. T F
- I feel
that my abilities are unimportant to God. T F
- I feel
unsure about whether or not God has a purpose for my
future. T F
- When I
really need God I tend to feel left on my own. T F
- I feel
that I may be a bother to God if I talk to Him about a decision
I need to make. T F
- I feel
that I don't get enough help with my problems from God. T F
- At times
I feel deprived of good things by God. T F
- I feel
insignificant to God. T
- I feel
removed from God. T
- Sometimes
I feel controlled by God. T F
- If I want
God to do something for me then it feels like it helps my
cause to do something for Him. T F
- I feel
disapproved of by God. T F
- After
I tell God I am sorry I still feel He may be upset with me. T F
- I feel
harshly judged by God sometimes. T F
- If someone
tries to take advantage of me I tend to feel undefended
by God. T F
- I feel
that my abilities are doubted by God. T F
- I feel
unsure of whether or not God has special plans for my
future. T F
- In difficult
times it feels like God isn't at my side. T F
Scoring:
To
score and understand your GIQ use the table below. It has
14 rows, one for each of the 14 aspects of God's perfect
love from 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. (The first word or term
for each aspect of love is from the NIV translation and
the other words are my definitions.) There are two questions
("Quest") for each aspect.
"False"
answers to any question on the GIQ indicate a generally and
usually positive experience of God's love (or image of
God) in that particular aspect.
Follow
these four steps:
- Circle
each of the 28 questions that you answered with "false."
- Count
one point for each "false" answer.
- Add
up the total for each row (aspect of God's love). Scores
should range from 0 to 2. Scores of 2 indicate your God
Image strengths, areas where you have a positive experience
of that aspect of God's love. Scores of 0 indicate your
God Image weaknesses, areas where you're struggling to
feel God's love and need help.
- Add
up your total GIQ score for all 14 rows combined. Scores
should range from 0 to 28. Higher scores mean a closer
and more loving relationship with God, an image of God
that is more positive and true to the God of the Bible
Question
|
Aspect
of God's Love
|
Score
|
| 1,15 |
Patient:
attentive, interested |
|
| 2,16 |
Kind:
helpful |
|
| 3,17 |
Not
envious: generous, gives good gifts |
|
| 4,18 |
Not
boastful: esteems and shows regard |
|
| 5,19 |
Not
proud: close, available |
|
| 6,20 |
Not
rude: gives freedom, gentle |
|
| 7,21 |
Not
self-seeking: unconditional favor and care |
|
| 8,22 |
Not
easily angered: considerate of weaknesses |
|
| 9,23 |
No
record of wrongs: forgiving, merciful |
|
| 10,24 |
Rejoices
in truth, not evil: fair, does whats right |
|
| 11,25 |
Protects:
keeps safe, defends |
|
| 12,26 |
Trusts:
respects, believes in abilities |
|
| 13,27 |
Hopeful:
has good plan and purpose |
|
14,28
|
Perseveres:
reliable, faithful
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GIQ
Total |
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